single women over 50 hi everyone here is part one of dating in your 50s so it's probably one of the most difficult things I thin...
single women over 50
hi everyone here is part one of dating in your 50s so it's probably one of the most difficult things I think going dating in your 50s on these you know dating sites and apps is like trying to figure out the freaking Rubik's Cube from the 80s it's impossible it's impossible and it's frustrating and I just want to take the phone and slam it up against the wall um I I don't get it I don't understand um why it's so hard to find somebody is it that everybody's completely broken I you know I don't want to go on a date and hear about you know three hours of why your your wife left you or why you left your what no no you know ask me some questions people sit there and they say nothing how could you not have anything to say I'm meeting you for the first time and you've got nothing I hear crickets you should have 10 million questions to ask right after that off the bat done bye bye see you later now ladies I'm gonna let all of you in on a little secret this exact level of dating frustration is the low starting Baseline of dating frustration men deal with at 18. I have said it before men have to learn early how to date on hard mode young women date on easy mode it's not until a decade plus post-wall Sebastian does it get to normal mode difficulty for women and no women very rarely know what it is like to date on hard mode as to this coup means it's possible no what is happening is she is not getting with the men she wants to date since they have options and date younger women DaVinci is dating are probably those who have fewer options or are recently divorced and don't know how to date anymore think of it this way it's like you're writing into a giant car sale trying to show off your 1996 Toyota Supra with dense scratches and 300K miles on the meter then you get upset the men with Deep Pockets are huddled around a 2023 Nissan GTR I'm an independent woman I own my own business I work hard um I like to do fun things um you know I like kayaking I like boating I like to go paintballing um I've gone Hatchet throwing I've done Spartan races you know I had a guy tell me one step because I did those things that I participated in extremely violent extracurricular activities are you serious are you serious like and what do you do for fun I'll tell you what he did he collected autographs collected autographs nothing wrong with that however do not tell me that because I like to be active and do fun things that those are extremely violent extracurricular activities all right so you know what all I'm saying is I am taping taking applications taking applications now if you are single if you're in the New Jersey area and you like to do fun things let me know let me know where you're all at because they're certainly not on the dating apps which I'm done with and deleting all right have a great day kuwine how many times do men have to say over and over we are not attracted to the same things you are your career and being independent does practically nothing to raise your smv ladies you can blame men for having a hard time dating in your 50s all you want but you are the common denominator that's like a size 18 woman who keeps trying to fit into a size 12 sundress and says the fabric is to blame when the tears this queen complained about a guy who collected autographs she dated sister you are acting like a masculine Behemoth and then you complain because you attract feminine men the point is men who like to do those things you like to do don't find you attractive because they want to date feminine women it has nothing to do with the activities it has everything to do with how you carry yourself you probably treat men like you treat your business and it doesn't work out moving on you know it's a funny thing when you're single and you live in a small state in a small town people tend to get in your business I was at the bank recently and this acquaintance came up to me in line someone I don't really know and started asking me how come you're single are you dating would you ever get married again I mean I was like do I have a no boundary sticker on my forehead and then a couple days later I was at a social Gathering kind of the same thing why aren't you dating what are you looking for and what do you bring to the table how long kind of surprised me a little bit I wanted to say I am the table but I'm not like that listen people I know plenty of people who are coupled up married that are not happy a single folks just because we're not coupled up it doesn't mean that we're necessarily unhappy yeah thanks for listening seeing me a trip to the therapist bam her words not mine thanks for listening save me a trip to the therapist this just reinforces when men say that internet validation is the new form of therapy women are seeking out like that helps any ladies let me point out the not so obvious obvious if you really are happy being single there is zero reason for you to make a video and post it on the internet to convince others you actually are happy that's like me making a video to explain why gorillas a gorilla this isn't a Donkey Kong game and it's place is self-explanatory it doesn't need to be justified to the world am I saying this queen is not happy no what I am saying is if it were true then what is the purpose of this video let's say we hypothetically were speaking about another random woman in her 50s who made a video saying I'm telling unhappy being single you have to believe me please believe me yeah fam we would uh hypothetically think definitely not ladies there's nothing wrong with being a social creature and wanted to be in a relationship it's like beef and bacon they go awesome together moving on here's here's a comment about hitting the wall I received an earlier comment about being [Music] her fertility window and is no longer attractive it's as if she hit a wall if you Google post-wall women it also talks about women in their 30s who've hit the wall and they no longer can rely on their looks to get what they want such as talking their way out of a speeding ticket and they don't have men hitting on them as much Falls a post ball women are hitting the wall doesn't bother me because I'm sure that this person is very superficial and this person is probably a lot younger I think that older men have more to offer to older women and older women have more to offer to older men I know that I have so much more to offer at 50 than I did when I was in my 20s so there she's going to sink captain she can't sink she's Unsinkable she can't float superficial really cooling I am sorry and at the risk of sounding genderist women are far more superficial than men I think my female viewers just screamed I love me well fam I beg to differ women love men conditionally on the security and lifestyle they can provide in fact I would argue the active hypergamy denotes a clear sign of those conditions overtaking previous set emotions ladies I'm not here to bash this queen but I want to point out the reality that she doesn't want to acknowledge and that would be what she thinks she offers men at the age of 50 being greater than what she offered in her 20s is only valued in her mind let me put it this way ladies what do you think men value of you in your 50s more than you in your 20s seriously what ladies your career that doesn't do anything for your smv your money see the answer to the previous question your experience again see previous answer let me point this out for you ladies the reason dating after 50 is so hard for women is because men don't find the bulk of things you bring to the table attractive yes men will smashy smash you but that's as far as it's going say it with me ladies now let's go get you a new cat and a few boxes of wine I'm just saying if you enjoyed this audit click on the video in the end screen for more content if you agree or disagree with anything about this audit please let us know in the comments I'm going to leave this audit right here I'll see all of you in the next episode [Music] thank you ...
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