best place to meet single women welcome to coffee with Carrie I appreciate you stopping by today where to meet women you're askin...
best place to meet single women
welcome to coffee with Carrie I appreciate you stopping by today where to meet women you're asking me where are these women you're talking to all the time these clients where do you send them when you're not matching them where do I find them today I have compiled a list of 10 places the best and the worst places and then there's some places in the Middle where you got to read the room and figure this out for yourself whether this is a good idea or not to approach women in some of these situations and hey H in around for just those might make this episode worthwhile if that's at all interesting or intriguing I hope you'll stick around because where to meet women the best and worst places that's what's on the agenda number one we all like to give online dating and dating apps a hard time and knock them as often as possible and sure they're not perfect there's a lot wrong with them they don't work all the time they don't work for everybody depending where you live there's a lot of challenges to the dating apps but for a lot of people they work fantastically I think it's almost like a 30% of the people getting married now are meeting on dating apps so it's definitely not something you want to write off as not worthwhile obviously some are better than others but we can't write them all off as being horrible just because we haven't found our person there yet they're working for a lot of people they worked for me and if the one you're using is isn't the right one then you just need to maybe try a different one and I get it there's a lot of scammers out there there's a lot of bots trying to just get you engaged in conversation to take advantage and you have to know what that's all about you have to know what that looks like and how to easily avoid it but once you get past that there are women near you who are datable who live near you they're not across the world they're not in another state they're within an hour from where you are and they are interested in meeting you within the week and that is just Facts of Life dating apps are going to have to be in the best list of where to meet women in 2024 was trying to figure out how to organize these whether I was going to alternate between best and worst or just do all the best first but there are some places really that are dependent on external factors they could be great they could be horrible depending on how the situation is handled let's throw in one of those now for example and that would be the gym a lot of women go to the gym no makeup in a rush to get back home to start work or in the rush to get back home and have dinner at the end of their workday they are not looking to meet people at the gym other women are open to that if you don't catch them in the middle of a workout or interrupt the purpose that they're there so would I say that the gym is a great place to meet women uh no but would I say it's off all together not really it's a read the room situation and you have to just be very cautious and look at her face as you're approaching typically if you're going to give this a go at the gym it's while women are on their way in on their way out and without making them feel like you're accosting them or unsafe not going to try to talk to somebody out in the parking lot right outside their car which is not really a safe feeling for most of us so if you can find the perfect time inside the place you work out inside the gym to initiate a conversation casually and I don't talk to people at the gym so I can't even give you examples of what you would want to say but if you have something that works for you at the gym and knowing that this woman is smiling at you and giving you positive reinforcement on your approach then by all means give it a shot this one's on you because it's kind of an iffy one number three and everybody expects to have conversations with strangers at a coffee shop talk to people in line when you're ordering talk to people while you're waiting for your order to show up and talk to people while you're sitting at a table getting ready to work or just staring out the window doing some thinking it's a prime opportunity to connect with people no one's going to be offended if they've ever been to a coffee shop before when you begin a conversation with them make a passing comment or ask a casual question so definitely coffee shops SL cafes they're in the go for it column of where to meet women you've heard me tell the gals that Home Depot has been very successful for a lot of friends and clients of mine and I think that goes both ways if you see a woman at Home Depot I wouldn't say can I help you with something because they have people there I've made good friends with some of the fellas at my Home Depot the ones that help me out when I have a question but you could be friendly or may comment on something about the project it looks like she's begun or ask where she found something that's in her cart that you might be looking for you can also do that at other stores as well you know I'm a big fan as was one of my clients on the grocery store because it's so easy to ask about something that's in the cart or ask directions to something where to find something in the store I do it all the time legitimately not even trying to meet somebody so it's very common place to have people talking to me and for me to talk to people at the grocery store everybody has to eat it's a great place to connect with women that's where they are they're buying food that does not mean that other places we shop are off limits shopping in the store I constantly have asked people I'm trying to buy this for my son or my brother can I hold it up to you are you also a large or a mediate whatever that looks like I wouldn't recommend that for men but you could ask a woman do you think a woman of 7 5 or 80 would be more likely to wear either one of these you know shopping for your mom or you know this doesn't even have to be cloth there's lots of departments at a TJ Maxx for example that you can bump into women so maybe TJ Maxx would be a great place to meet women who are bargain hunters as well public transportation is another yes in my book and that would be waiting for a train on the train waiting for a bus in the at the bus station at the bus stop sitting on the bus in a shared ride Uber where you're sharing with other people to keep cost down great conversations I've had in the back of somebody else's car great conversations I've had with three people a driver and two passengers in a ride share situation always take advantage of that that's a great way to connect with somebody while you're prisoners in a car and passing by millions of things you could use for convers ational kindling I know people think that nightclubs are horrible places to meet women or men and that could be true they're loud they're obnoxious people are not at their best I've seen men approach women who have no manners people often are rude I know people who feel both ways about nightclub so if you're one who thinks that's a great place to meet women and you've had great luck who am I to tell you no I've met people that I've dated at very loud clubs with music going on you can't hear each other you can't have a conversation and that's true it's not a yes or no situation it's a case-by casee basis and what works for you so if you're comfortable in that scenario then by all means get somebody's number and make plans for the following weekend if you feel that people just tend to have really bad manners in those situations and you never have great luck then save it for some other situation where you find it's a more comfortable fit for you I'm have a couple handfuls of new clients over the last month month and a half that have really taken me up on my suggestion to use meetup groups and to really delve into some meetup groups that are not your standard and get together at a bar and meet people who are the same age but more aligned with what their interests are and they've been having fantastic luck making friends meeting people of the opposite sex and having a great time doing something that they find enjoyable so I will suggest to you that you check your city's meetup groups and see if there's something that Peaks your curiosity or that sounds like fun and that you would enjoy doing whether you met somebody or not would consider it a personal growth experience or a really nice way to spend couple hours once a week or twice a month whatever the case may be meetup groups give it a try take a peek see if that might be an option for you uh work relationships this is another one that it's a case-by casee basis they can be horrible if they don't work out and you have to work beside someone that you were romantic with and are no longer that can be a little awkward dating in a place where that's not allowed obviously not a great idea where it's going against the rules however many of us spend lots of hours in a workplace for a lot of people it's just logical and it seems obvious that that's a place that there's no pressure to decide whether there's a romantic connection you can take your time and just suddenly find that you are looking forward to spending more and more time with this person look forward to going to work really enjoy somebody's sense of humor or their company or your lunches together it happens all the time you have so much in common to start with but like I said if you're the type of person who's not going to be able to move on and work with that person should things not work out then perhaps that's not worth starting in the first place but if if you are no reason to not let something grow if there is a connection that you've made with somebody else in the workplace volunteering now you've got both of your values also in this connection that you're going to make volunteering to help other people is a great way to be doing something good making yourself feel good and finding somebody else who feels the same way about giving of their time to perhaps help people that are less fortunate in some way and I've never seen or heard about anybody being offended by someone sparking a conversation so feel free to talk to women who are also volunteering with you whether you're feeding people who are unhomed or taking care of animals whoever your coworker is in that volunteering situation it's a great place to meet women classes taking a dance class an art class A martial arts class an exercise class any place that people gather any place there's a Class Type situation will be an opportunity to expose yourself to women who are trying to be better at something or show up regularly for something whether they're trying to be healthier or learn a new skill or just out there to be social and meet people it's a great opportunity to talk to somebody that you wouldn't have met otherwise Pick a Class obviously that's going to be something that you find valuable you're giving your time why wouldn't you want it to be valuable to you because there's obviously no guarantees you're going to meet a woman at least you will have felt like that was time well spent if you don't but Pick a Class A type of class where it's more likely that there will also be women getting towards the end here a place of worship if you are a person who does that if you have a religion and participate in religious activities I know there are Church groups where people I work with have met somebody outreaches or worship groups I'm not the person to ask about this but think about the place you meet people who also share your religious beliefs and see if there's someplace that you might find a like-minded woman who would share your values and be somebody you'd be interested in taking on a date any and then finally anywhere you are and there's a woman there is a great place to meet women because that's where they are we're everywhere we're everywhere you are except maybe the men's room if you see a woman she looks interesting you make eye contact you know what a great pickup line it works all the time on all of us Hi how are you in a friendly voice with a smile on your face you use your surroundings to add something else to ask a question and off you go to the races so we're out there check out this episode and you will be even more likely to make a connection with us and get out on a date hope you found that helpful interesting if you did Mom that's her my mom she says give the episode a thumbs up I hope you'll subscribe to the channel and if you hit that ring bell it notifies you every time a new episode goes live on the air I look forward to seeing you back here again soon and until next time have a good [Music] one ...
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