meeting single men besides church where can I meet christian single men that's a question I've received a lot over the years ...
meeting single men
besides church where can I meet christian single men that's a question I've received a lot over the years from christian single women who want to be married one day they want to be inviting like I talk about a lot on this channel they want to man to pursue but they're unsure of where to actually meet eligible christian single men so in this video I'm going to talk about four things a christian single woman can do and four places where she can go to actually meet eligible christian single men but before we get to those four points I think we first need to address why women are asking this question besides church where can I meet christian single men in the first place so from my experience women lead with that statement besides church because that's the answer that most of them have been given most of their life where can I meet a christian single man you meet him at a church and what I've also found is that women then say well I've already tried that I've tried to meet a christian single man at church and it hasn't worked so where else can I go and to those statements I do have a few suggestions and some qualifiers that I think will help guide us throughout the rest of this video first I think it's great to try to meet a man at church however we also need to be careful that we don't turn church into just a place where we're trying to meet a single man second just because something didn't work in the past does not mean it won't work in the future you only need to meet one man who will pursue you into marriage once so logically you should expect almost every interaction you have with single men to not result in marriage since this will only happen once in your life third and most importantly for this conversation going to a church to meet a man usually never works from the millions of women who have met their husband at church it usually occurs because both of them were deeply involved at that church attending and being involved are totally different things through serving and building deep friendships with many people at that church two singles have the opportunity to grow in a much deeper way than merely seeing each other on Sunday morning and then hoping Sparks Fly church is still the primary place where Christians on Earth gather it's God's command for Christians to gather at church so so naturally if you want to meet a Christian at all the best place to look is the place where God has commanded them to be a part of with all that out of the way here are four places and things a woman can do to meet eligible christian single men to date besides at church number one the Bible commands Christians to do life with other Christians therefore you can meet eligible christian single men through mutual Christian friends our Christian walk with the Lord must always be personal but it can never be private you need at least a few Christian friends or Christian family members to be living a healthy Christian walk because that's how God has designed us as people like a living ecosystem communities are living organisms because some people are always leaving and some people are always coming friends will always meet new friends through the current friends friends they have therefore I really believe that many Christians remain single even though they want to meet someone because they overall Christian Community is unhealthy or they just don't have a good Christian Circle in general regardless of whether there are christian single men or not because the more people you know the more new people you will meet number two the Bible commands us to use our gifts to serve other people for the glory of God therefore you're going to meet an eligible christian single man when you are using your gifts to serve others you have a gift I have a gift every single Christian has a gift from God that we are commanded to use to serve other people and as you obey that command you will naturally meet other people who are also obeying that command so if you've been asking where are all the Christian men you should ask well where are all the Christians where where are they where should they be and you look at scripture and God is very clear he's commanded us to love him by serving other people and that's where other true Christians are going to be so when you're there doing the same thing and serving God through loving other people and serving them you're going to meet other people who are genuinely obeying scripture as well number three God has made Christians with varying desires and interests for his glory therefore you're going to meet other Christians sing Les when you pursue those passions that God has given you so this verse doesn't mean that we all need to be explorers discovering new lands or directly involved with the animal kingdom and ruling over creation like this verse explicitly talks about rather in the spirit of this verse I believe God has called us to interact with his creation and pursue those passions that he's given us to express His Image and His glory I say all because for our context if you are living an isolated boring life and not pursuing your passions you'll be far less likely to have a healthy community of people that also enjoy similar things as you so if you want to meet an eligible christian single man who enjoys the things that you enjoy then you need to actually be doing those things out in the world with other people so you have the chance to meet like-minded people and number four God has made all relationships to be dependent on certain foundational principles therefore wherever you meet a man you're going to have to put in massive effort to connect with him sometimes when a woman asks where can I meet a christian single man besides church deep down they're secretly hoping there's a silver bullet that's going to make this process a lot easier for them changing the location however is not going to change the effort needed to see results all relationships always have certain foundational principles that must be met for a connection to occur take a step back and think about trying to find a new best friend you want to connect with another woman as a best friend you need to actually have regular friends first you're not going to just step into a relationship and be like I have found my new best friend because our eyes connected across the room and now we are best friends that's not how relationships work and I say that because we need to lose lose that mindset of this in relationships with men we need to think about the hard work the actual time and energy needed to connect with another human being that allows a romantic connection to start so there's no get-rich quick scheme out there when it comes to love it requires mature love expressed through self-sacrifice in other words most women will see better results not by changing where they are looking but by changing how they are interacting with the people they do meet in life to continue this conversation and to learn more about these principles I've been alluding to in this video make sure you're subscribed to the channel that's a large focus of this channel to help people in the relationships from a Biblical perspective I'm Mark from applygodsword decom and until next time God bless ...
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