Smart Woman Explains To INDEPENDENT Single Mother That She Needs A Man

single woman who needs man god made uh Adam a suitable helpmate and he made that helpmate not because she's weaker but because Go...

single woman who needs man

god made uh Adam a suitable helpmate and he made that helpmate not because she's weaker but because God has given men a capacity and a responsibility that women do not have and we have to be honest about it we can say he's not a man he doesn't know how to lead he doesn't whatever there's still a capacity inside of him that God did not give us as women and I think part of the issue with modern society is that women are trying to offset this i think that women want to be treated uh as the weaker vessel in society by men but if men outwardly acknowledge that women are the weaker vessel it's seen as misogyny or the hatred of women if you get what I'm saying and I think that offsets the balance because I think that when women understand that the job that the men are doing is more of a necessity than the job that the women are doing in society especially currently it gives the women more of a respect for the sacrifices that men have to make in order for society to keep on going what I'm basically trying to say is that masculinity is necessary for survival but femininity is the thing that makes survival beautiful and makes it worth it but femininity has to be protected by masculinity in order for it to exist this is why you see women when they go into the workforce they become a little bit more masculine because masculinity is necessary for survival if you want pure femininity it has to be protected by masculinity and one of the biggest examples that I can give of that imagine it's raining and you're in New York City and if you've ever been to New York City or in France and it starts raining and people start selling umbrellas on the street those $5 $10 umbrellas they're not worth much but they get the job done until you get home imagine you have that man you have the man that gets the job done isn't anything special but he gets the job done that man no matter how little you view him is made to handle the rain exactly you were not made to handle the rain but you were made to hold up that which can handle the rain exactly if you didn't have that umbrella you would come back home smelling like what you were poured on what poured on you when a man comes back in as that umbrella he gets dried quickly water repellent it falls off of him and no matter how equipped you thought he was he still was built for the rain exactly the difference and by the way guys I want y'all to know that all this is going on right now but if you're a man the rain is coming all right so if you're a guy keep keep going into your financial stride keep working on yourself keep working on your if you can stay fit into your 30s as a man you are in Runescape terms go black with gold trim armor now I know some people like the rune armor some people like the dragon armor blah blah blah blah blah blah bloop okay fine but I'm saying if you can stay in shape as a man you moving into your financial stride your beard growing in you're working on your hygiene you're working on your social skills and you hit the age of 30 and you're fit oh you're you're you're the rarest mineral on the planet because you can pay a woman to do some of the jobs that another woman can do but a woman can't pay a man to pay their bills so the thing men have been treated like they're disposable for so long that men forget that you are a rarity you are a necessity in the world life is a two-player game and a lot of these ladies who's trying to play it on one player they hitting this age where it's starting to switch a little bit and they going through some struggles i'm telling you right now guys if you just bear this if you just be a little patient keep working on yourself it's coming you are a rare necessity on the planet you can see the writing on the wall if you look at whatever side you believe in politically it seems like they want to go to war with Iran that might trigger World War II now you may say that's a good thing you may say that's a bad thing depending on your politics but at the end of the day it seems like the rain is coming you look at the economy you look at tariff wars you look at all these things going on in the world and the rain is coming for the past 60 years we've been having a party free sex everybody just have a blast transgenders come on in now it's going to be time to buckle down because things are getting harder and if you think that you're going to be playing the game on one player mode especially as a woman with this rain coming you got another thing coming for you so some of you want that Nean Marcus umbrella some of you want the wood handle those things are heavy and if God gave you a man like that then you have to be the woman that can hold up that man because an umbrella that is not used it can be for the rain for the sun it shields it provides shade it allows what's under it not to be touched we are the vessel not weaker we are the vessel that was meant to let the one that God gave us be held up and used for what he was made so now as a wife I want to say I don't want to get wet i don't want to sunburn my skin's not built for that so instead I'm going to let the man be who he was meant to be and if God gave me which he did my man's about as heavy as this table that means God made me capable of holding him up if my man is not doing what he was made to do it's because I as his wife am not holding him up one thing I will credit myself to is that that man can come and do what God has him to do because on the back end he is being held up and held down not about me but to say this about submission if you think submission is because the man is doing what you believe is right for a man to do then you've missed your assignment before God god will bless your obedience as being a wife if you only submit when you agree with the man that is not submission submission is trusting his leadership because you chose him to be the leader if you chose to be in a relationship especially if you chose to be married to a man you basically said you trust his leadership so if you trust his leadership stop going against the grain and trust his leadership for example I used to play for the USA national rugby team i was the best scorer on the team but I wasn't the team leader because the team leader was judged based on experience and even though I had my opinions on what we should do I was going to listen to the team leader in order for us to win because if I wanted to lead myself and he was trying to lead us in a different direction it would split the team up and we would get crushed so just because you're not the leader doesn't mean that you don't have an important role and a good leader can only be a good leader if you're willing to be a follow follower and if you're only submitting when you agree then that's not genuine submission so what she's saying is absolutely true here and I think also another thing you got to add in there is it comes down to the woman's appreciation of the umbrella don't matter what kind of umbrella you got do you appreciate the umbrella that you have and I think often times there's not a level of appreciation for the umbrella that some ladies have they think that they're better than these men that they're actually equal to and that's part of the issue the Bible's full of it ephesians and Corinthians in the Old Testament just start looking for them and I please read love and respect it will change your life submission does not make you a weaker vessel it just makes you the part of the of the of the machine that is needed to function but in trusting somebody else's responsibility that that's what they were made for to do what God has made them to do so I value submission submit one to another is not in the same way he is not going to submit to me the way I'm going to submit to him that's not even biblical as he submits to Christ so I submit to him who has submitted to Christ if God has made the man the head of the house to love his wife as he is to love the church God is going to hold him to a standard god is also going to hold you to a standard and it's not going to be dependent on did you value him or did you do right by him because he did right by you or you did right by him because you did right by what God commanded you to do exactly and that's part of the issue with modern society i'm going to leave a link to this uh video in the pin comments and in the description down below because I think that this is a good one regardless of if you agree with it or not if you're not religious I hope that you could get the message picking up what she's putting down in my own experience regardless of what people say the best system I see is God man it's the divine order god man woman children now there are some niche examples of it working outside of this divine order but from my personal experience and I'm just saying what I see regardless of what you believe religiously that's the order that I see working the best and I don't think it's a surprise and I think what she said there at the end was the key you as a woman ain't about doing what you supposed to do as a woman if he's doing what he's supposed to do as a man you're supposed to be trying to do right by something else it's for your own standard to uphold yourself as a woman to do your responsibilities i think that people forget that marriage isn't about happiness marriage is about duty and even the things that make you happy sometimes that you're unhappy when you have to do them so when you see it as more of a duty things that you're supposed to do regardless of your happiness or not you'll see it in a different light and I think that goes for anything that you want to be successful in in life if you want to have a good physique you can't just go to the gym when it makes you happy you got to do it sometimes when you don't want to do it if you want a successful marriage you can't do your duties only when they make you when the other person's making you happy you got to do them because you see them as your duties so often times I think this idea that marriage is about the woman's happiness or the man's happiness when really it's about the stability to provide a stable household for the children that's really what marriage is for if we want to be quite honest it's about a commitment to each other to provide stability for children so that the next generation of society society builders your children will be stable human beings and you see the instability when women think that they don't need men in order to have a household there are some women that think that they don't need men and that could be true maybe you got the money to provide for yourself but your children definitely need men so if you want to procreate you're going to need a father in that kid's life don't matter how much money you make a two parent household is always going to produce the best children a poor family with two people that maybe argue sometimes is going to statistically speaking do better than one single woman that has a bunch of money and resources so at the end of the day by the divine order if you want to procreate you need to have a man in your life if you're a lady so yeah I think she's on to a lot of things here i think this was a good video again I'll leave a link in the pin comments and in the description down below let me know in the comments below if this video was a W or give me the HBO special does help brother out special hit the like and the subscribe button for more content also guys if you want to support the channel in an alternative way just in case YouTube turns the lights off join the Patreon i'll leave a link to that in the pin comments and in the description down below also till next time ...

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