i want to find a girlfriend so last week I'm out shopping at my local mall looking for some lenses for my camera I'm on the w...
i want to find a girlfriend
so last week I'm out shopping at my local mall looking for some lenses for my camera I'm on the way to the store and these three girls come up to me and they start harassing me now they know me from my content they start asking for an autograph and you can tell these girls are just coming up to clown they start surrounding me so I can't walk they're probably my age maybe a little bit older but maybe even younger cuz you don't really know nowadays and they were pissing me off bro they will pissing me off this is like the first time this has ever that happened in public I didn't want to be disrespectful to him I didn't want him to say like move get my way I have something to do so I just played along with it I didn't give him an autograph cuz I would I knew they were just joking around they were just Clowning me for it they didn't actually admire my content someone probably dared them to do it but they realized they were annoying me and they walked away so I got the lens I wanted from the store I came back sat in my car and I just sat there and had a massive hits of loneliness because of the interaction I just had with these three girls now it wasn't a h of loneliness because I wanted more attention from these women no it was a sense that I will never meet the woman of my dreams the woman who shares similar values to me it's like every single girl I meet is the complete opposite that doesn't make me better than anybody else that doesn't make the woman that I aspire to be with any better than any other woman no I'm not saying that don't get it twisted no but if you're anything like me you've never had a girlfriend I've never had a girlfriend if you don't count my year6 girlfriend one of your one of my biggest dreams if not my biggest dream is to settle down with a woman that shares similar values to me honest has Ambitions doesn't have to be anything crazy big but has sort of an ambition her smile is amazing she just wants to light up everyone's day having a family with this woman is my biggest dream man and it just feels like the chances of this becoming a reality is getting less by the day and you've probably felt the same way I I'm still feeling it the last week even though I know none of this is true even though I know if I keep improving my communication skills I it becoming the man that would be attractive to this type of woman I'll be fine but still right when you're laying in bed and it feels like everyone else around you is with a girl that you know shares value similar to them but you are sitting there and you're very very different than most people again not saying anyone's better than anybody else it does get lonely bro I'm not perfect I experienced the same emotions as you just because I have some subscribers on YouTube so I drive home that day and throughout the drive I kind of subconsciously convinced myself that in order to be truly happy I need to have this type of woman I need to have a woman that shares similar values to me if I don't ever meet this woman I won't be happy I will not be truly happy I'm still happy definitely but I won't be TR truly 100% fulfilled until I meet this girl and look I'm sure I'm not the only young guy who's experiencing this I don't see many people talking about it but you know me I'm just going to speak my truth this is how I feel bro and it comes up a lot it does yeah ever since I was a little kid I have not lacked attention from girls but I kind of have yeah it's the best way to put it I have lacked attention I've always been very very different again not saying I'm better than anybody I don't want I want to put that out there I never like partying even as a kid I've always love I'm I'm a massive introvert massive massive introvert but I've improved on my social skills definitely and this is where this feeling comes from so for a lot of you it might just be like I'm you know complaining and but that's this is just my experience man look I'm not saying attention from women is a good thing or a bad thing it's simply a thing you make it good or bad as I said before I've never had a girlfriend but uh a lot of my mates that I've grown up with since you know primary school year seven days have been in relationships and I've seen some of them uh completely ruin their lives because of especially when they get older like year 10 to 12 they ruin their lives because of a girl bro you can just tell they might not talk about it but you can tell man you can tell in their face and it's not like I'm being some creepy ass dude observing every move they take no but you can tell yeah and I truly believe 95% of the time it comes down to the intention of dating a lot of young men out there they have the intention of dating because they need a fill of void within themsel yeah a feeling of loneliness right if I got with a girl it would be to fill a void of loneliness it's not going to work out there's multiple other reasons but you should be happy before you get with a girl you should be it's like eating a cake the cake itself needs to actually be good before you put the toppings on the toppings make it even better especially if they're toppings that compliment the cake which is a girl complimenting you in terms of being relatable to you sharing the same value to you if you have a good topping that ashit cake no one's going to want to eat the cake they're going to have to remove the topping to eat it you want both and the cake which is you it all comes down to your intention in the dating World it all comes down to the man you actually are yeah mentally spiritually physically financially a lot of things right but that these your cake should reflect your values some of you you don't really value materialistic possessions some women out there value that right but your the woman of your dreams will reflect what you value as a man and look I might just be talking out of my ass I'm just an 18-year- old kid yapping right but I'm sure a lot of you will find some value out of this because when I heard this I found a lot of value out of it as well you should be as a man fine with and happy with especially in your early 20s and especially late teenage years should be happy not sleeping you know next to a woman every single night yeah I don't know if you like going out and partying and random chicks I'm not like that I don't do that so you won't see me effing a random cheick on the side of the street taking her home and you know doing all that type of stuff you won't see you won't see me doing that you should be able to look yourself in the mirror and smile at the person you've become when you are alone even though you're never alone there is someone out there that can relate to you bro always whether you're going through a breakup whether you're never had a girlfriend and you kind of want to experience a breakup because you want to know how it feels like because I know a lot of people want that give yourself some credit man just because you haven't had a girlfriend doesn't mean you're ear anything less than anybody else for most of you 99% of people who've never had a girlfriend who are watching this video you share values that are rare but because you share these values once you meet this person who does share these values which will come it will as long as you keep working yourself you keep building your garden you keep improving your social skills cuz that's definitely a part of it she will come and it will be the best girl you could possibly ever imagine and once you have the perspective that I'm only going to get into a relationship with a girl because of her I've already built my cake I'm just going to add some toppings onto it that actually creates you know a healthy relationship this is just common sense if you're getting into a relationship for a reason for yourself to fill a void within yourself yeah your intention is you your intention needs to be this other person how can I make their life better right right and that's going to make your life better yeah how can we make each other's lives better not just yours okay and that's why it's so important that as a man especially as a young man in today's world gen Z you should be happy before you get with a girl so you don't up the relationship you don't up your own life I don't know what video I leave here but I will leave a video here that might help you to feel that void of loneliness that you might be experiencing right now yeah because you can definitely quote unquote fix it by yourself my love bro and I'll catch you in this video if you need it peace ...
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