the attractive man if they're always the victim and their ex is always the villain everyone's always out to get them you are ...
the attractive man
if they're always the victim and their ex is always the villain everyone's always out to get them you are going to be the next villain it does not matter how wonderful you treat them you are going to be a villain in their story if you don't treat them the way they want to be treated listen to how they talk if they don't have accountability they don't take responsibility for their actions early on this is not someone you can rely on to be a good partner yes you can support them and grow with them them and maybe communicate but unless they actually take that responsibility to grow themselves you're going to be babysitting for the rest of your life with this person look man even if your ex did something horrible to you like she cheated on you or she stole your money and disappeared whatever it is think of the positive that came out of that situation or that relationship it may not have been a good relationship but you can still find the good in it maybe you learned a valuable lesson the point is frame it in the positive not in the negative like I would assume it's demand that you know everyone is equal and D cool support your beliefs whatever but I feel like those are the men that are more feminine than a lot of women nowadays and I don't want that I don't need that not here for it so you don't want a balanced man who's 50% masculine and 50% feminine and and androgynous and doesn't make any moves on you you don't want that kind of man no I think there has to be of course a a feminine and a masculine balance but it's not the kind of feminine that people would probably think these days a masculine man who has that feminine umin kindness feminine kindness I guess yeah yeah warmth you know he's not just an and like has no emotions exactly he you feel safe with him you feel like you can be honest with him and you can I don't know if you need to break down you can break down with him around him and he will make you feel safe and seen and hold that space for you that's the feminine um the feminine part I look for in a masculine man not wearing skirts and wearing pink shirts I don't know look if she's a feminine woman then she wants to date a masculine man she gets that feminine fulfillment from hanging out with her female friends from you the guy she's dating she wants that masculine polarity jealousy first of all when it's jealous so you're making other guy it's totally fine no no no no no no not making up with another guy like a jealousy meaning like um more of like where you going what are you doing why you're there like you know up your ass yeah and and control freak on you he has to know everything where you are what do you do that's a trust issue like with the man that's an insecurity he's insecure he thinks he's not good enough so he thinks somebody else is going to snag you yeah you you I mean if you're in a relationship you have to trust each other in order to continue and to have a good relationship in future and maybe build up family and Stu women do want a man who's powerful who can take control but they typically do not want man that is overpowering and controlling only a very damaged woman would want a man like that oversharing in a woman can sometimes be kind of bad because that either means extreme childhood trauma that usually leads to other issues or attention ponging and I'm an oversharer so I can say that which one of you uh attention Hing I I like attention quite a lot it feeds my ego um but also it's like a craving feel like I I almost like feel like I need it sometimes so that's the oversharing part as I'm oversharing on camera first of all if a guy overshares it usually means the woman doesn't have as many opportunities to share herself he's essentially hogging the conversation which makes her feel like the guy doesn't care about her that he just wants to talk about himself plus it makes the m hisory of finding out more about him out the window what's the point of going on a second date she already knows everything about him so definitely share about yourself but your mission going into a date should not be to reveal everything about yourself it should be to get to know her [Music] ...
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