bobby rio seven weird ways to turn a woman on if you're talking to a woman on a date or at a party or maybe she's a coworker ...
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seven weird ways to turn a woman on if you're talking to a woman on a date or at a party or maybe she's a coworker or just a female friend and you want to spark attraction what can you do in this video I want to share seven weird and somewhat counterintuitive ways to innocently turn a woman on even if you've just met hi I'm Bobby Rio and a lot of guys that I work with are confused on how to initially create attraction with a girl or how to move past that friendly level and a mistake a lot of guys make is when they feel St duck they simply use standard compliments or Nice Guy Behavior to try to jump start something with the woman and very often when a guy stuck in the friend zone he thinks he can confess his way out of it by revealing his feelings but the reality is nice guy compliments doing favors or even trying to tell her funny or interesting stories doesn't actually turn her on if a woman isn't turned on by you then you'll never move things past a friendly level so if nice guy Behavior doesn't turn a woman on what does well here's seven of my favorite sort of unconventional ways to get a woman turned on quickly whether she's a female friend a woman on your date with or a complete stranger okay let's get into them number one use command words most women prefer to be the submissive one in their relationship so you can set the frame that you're the strong dominant guy right away through the use of command words here's some of my favorites and they're very simple let's move over there listen cancel your plans no here's what we're going to do tell me your name that story if you're not used to talking like this it might seem rude or Brash to you at first but trust me women get turned on by powerful leaders who know what they want and have the balls to say it here's a pro tip replace questions with commands when possible so can I have your number becomes give me your number what's your favorite restaurant becomes tell me your favorite restaurant do you want to hang out Wednesday becomes let's go for drinks Wednesday at Bella Lounge so next time you're talking to a woman just test it out okay number two breaking the fourth wall so the fourth wall it's a term it's this imaginary wall that separates the story from The Real World so when an actor acknowledges the camera or he talks to the audience he's breaking the fourth wall well when you're with a woman this means acknowledging the dynamic between you and her right so for example if you compliment her you could say and I'm not just saying that because I'm hitting on you and I mean clearly I'm hitting on you but that's not why I said it right or if there's maybe an uncomfortable silence breaking the fourth wall would be acknowledging it with something like oh no our first uncomfortable silence we'll get through it right you're acknowledging that Dynamic now speaking of silences number three is use pauses and slow things down so being comfortable pausing and not feeling the constant need to talk displays confidence and lack of needing her approval now in another video I talk about how there's a validation vacuum and when you sort of sit back and relax she begins investing more into the conversation but what's really key is that the silence between you and her creates a bit of tension and tension is necessary for attraction to occur one of the main reasons why guys wind up in the friend zone in the first place is because they're uncomfortable with that natural tension that exists when you're with a woman so just occasionally pausing a that tension to build also when you pause in the middle of a sentence it draws her in and it makes her want to know what you're going to say and most importantly it allows you to slow things down which creates a more intimate Vibe between you and her not only should you slow your talking down it's hard to move things forward you know if you're talking a mile a minute and you're all like super engaged but you should also slow down your movements this will make the woman feel more relaxed and it sets that tone of intimacy between you when a client tells me that he has trouble getting the kiss on a date it's almost always because he doesn't allow for pauses and silences and he isn't actively slowing things down to set that right Vibe at some point you kind of have to just make a conscious effort to slow down your talking pause more lean back and look at her a little bit longer which leads into the next tip number four look at her lips during the conversation glance down at her lips a few times this will subconsciously get her to start thinking about kissing you um make sure you do this at the right moment like before you go for a kiss if you do this too soon or you do it too often uh you can either appear distracted or maybe she'll think you're uncomfortable with eye contact also you want to make sure that you are occasionally holding eye contact at times which then amplifies the moments when you do glance down because she'll see your eyes move from her eyes to her lips back to her eyes so okay next disagree with her this totally goes against like nice guy mindset but women hate guys who supplicate to them and agree with every word they say a woman wants a man who has his own opinions even if they go against hers this shows her that you have your own mind your own ideas your own likes your own dislikes and you're not trying to impress her so expressing your opinions disagreeing with her always great next number six push her away as we always say women love a challenge and one way to do this is by using something called push pull this is when you pull her towards you and then you push her away you can do this physically or verbally if you're overly eager and she knows that she can have you then chances are eventually she won't want you but if you always stay slightly Out Of Reach she will chase you so for example um you're cute right that's pulling her towards you then you push her away by saying something like but too bad it will never work out between us this pushing and pulling drives her crazy and it makes her try to convince you that oh yeah it will work out right it's changing the dynamic it also shows that you're not trying to impress her and that you don't really need her which again is a big turn on remember the basic of psychology is we want what we can have now before we get to the last tip one of the big things I tell my clients is that arousal Trump's logic see a lot of guys who are stuck in the friend zone they try to logically get out by impressing her or convincing her how good they'd be together but that almost never works so my friend Chris Anderson and I are hosting a free class called become the friend she falls in love with I'll put a link to it in the description but years ago I was in the audience and I heard Chris give this speech at a at a dating conference that blew my mind because he taught something called invisible escalation that causes a female friend to feel intense attraction towards you without knowing why right she thinks it's her idea to move things to the next level so I ask Chris to teach this technique to my audience and like I said he'll be doing it for free in a live class that you can register for at the link below now let's get into the next tip though number seven use her name we all love the sound of our own name but the key is to not overdo this because if you're constantly using our name it feels contrived and it also loses its Effectiveness instead use it sparingly and only when you want to create more intimacy between the two of you so for instance try saying her name in the middle of a sentence like I know what you mean Nicole I feel the same way when I'm you know whatever whatever it is right you're throwing her name out there pausing throwing her name out there there's something electric when someone you're vibing with uses your name and she'll feel it and she'll associate that electric jolt to you now if you like simple tips like these then I do recommend joining Chris and I for the friend she falls in love with training class you can register for the live class at the link below one of the things you're going to love about it is that you'll see that being friends with women is actually a good thing when you understand how to spark attraction between you and her you can register at the link below and as always if you like this video Hit subscribe and leave a comment let me know what you want to see covered in the next video ...
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